I bet you people had already seen my new poll and please answer ya. I'm really curious with the stats. And the reason why I put the poll up is because...
My classmate, which I don't think is appropriate to put her name here, told us angrily the story of her friend to rant all her fuss out.
Poor Guy (not his real name obviously) has been dating Sassy Girl for 6 years already and lately they had a huge fight over a SMS. Okay, maybe not a huge fight since it's more like a one-way thing. Sassy girl had been outrageously mad at Poor Guy for a SMS.
Not a suspicious sms from another girl with hints nor a sms from his friends asking him out for meet-up (with I think its no big deal because everyone has their own lives). It's.. an... SMS ... from ... his.... M.O.T.H.E.R !!!
Emak. Ibu. Mama. Mu-Ching. Lao Bu !!!!
Poor Guy went to Sassy Girl's place after the Friday prayers to keep her company. His phone rang upon receiving text message and she instantly threw tantrum on him thinking that its his friends asking him out. She hates his friends. And just because of that text message, she got mad at him for the whole day.
The. Whole. Day.
No matter how hard he tried to explain to her that its just his mother and furthermore, he's still there at her place with keeping her company and pujuk her. He even opened up the message and showed her just to prove its really from his mother and guess what she said,
"I DON'T CARE!
NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO TEXT YOU WHEN YOU'RE WITH ME!
NOT EVEN YOUR MOTHER!"
So yeah, she stayed angry at him for the whole day. And didn't even feed him.. from 2pm until 9pm. Well, she did have her dinner at home and when the Poor Guy tried to pull the chair out wishing to sit next to her, Sassy Girl just grabbed the soft drink next to her and threw it at the boyfriend.
At this point, I hope Mr. Ah Pui Lim is reading because he should feel lucky that I only diam-diam when marah. I don't even bite or hit.
You have no idea how many times my classmates and I gasped in astonishment, the bad one though. "OMG! How could she! What's your friend thinking? My Goodness! Palau eh! Can't he find someone else? She really loves him kan?"
Okay okay. To add in more of this, Sassy Girl had cheated on Poor Guy couple of times and he forgave her and just keep quiet. Maybe that's why she sort of climbs over his head liao?
Anyway, it puzzled me.
How can she be so heartless to a person she loves... or he's just nothing but an accessory or ATM card to her? Sad huh?
Don't you just hate it when a nice person ends up with a bad one?
Argh... Don't go tell me what 男人不坏女人不爱 or 女人不坏男人不爱
(The verse saying - People tend to love a bad person than a good one. Or, direct translating it will be "Men not naughty/bad, women don't love. Women not naughty/bad, men don't love")
So yeah, my friend encouraged Poor Guy to leave that girl and go for a better one.
And I thought, what if this happen to me and my close friend? Will I do the same or just "close-one-eye" and let them continue their 冤孽 ...
Well.. don't we all faced that kind of situation before? Your innocent and sweet girl friend fall in love with a scum bag or your goody ol pal fall in love with a devil from hell. And worse will be, your friend loves being "tortured" in the relationship and would just give in every single times.
If like that, really puke blood puke till can feed the entire kampong of mosquitoes.
For Chinese, there's a saying 宁教人打仔,莫教人分妻.
Meaning, teaching others to hit their kids rather than teaching others to separate from their spouses. So its very yam-kung to teach people to break up one and its a sinful thing to do. But, does that mean that even if that person was being abused by their husband/wife also ignore ka? Must wait till that person sedar-diri? Is that even possible?
I do feel a little disturbed every time I saw my friend bringing her "other half" to our gatherings though. I just couldn't agree with his actions and words, interrupting our girly conversations, making personal attacks and nasty remarks (on us! My goodness, do you trash your other half's friends in front of them? No right?) , turning them into a joke and thought that it's funny.
Gah! Feel like stuffing char siew bao into his mouth every time he separates that annoying thick lips of his! (I think I can sense some of my stupid friends snickering now)
So how I ask you all? We can't possibly go tell our friends straight forward saying, "Hey girl.. know what? Can you please don't bring your other half to our gathering next time? He's rude and annoying and honestly, we don't like him."
Damn hurt if she hears that kan?
Later I hilang one friend how?
(Not like I have many and since I'm kinda anti-social....)
And I'm surprised with the stats in the poll. Seems like my readers bring some sanity into this situation. When creating this poll, I was thinking to add in "Bring my friend to see bomoh see got kana kang-kang or not". Hahhahaaa.
Nevermind, I'm lame I know.
I wonder what others will do if faced the same situation. Gimme some comments okay?