You no longer get invitation to your friend’s birthday party… Instead, they become your friends’ kids full month / one year old birthday party. Such is life.
As for friend’s birthday or our own birthday, a simple dinner together is already considered a bliss.
Worse, your title changes from “Miss” to “Aunty”….
Even “Jie-Jie” (Or Cheh-Cheh) is something you have to threaten then baru ada.
(Yes! I once threatened a kid saying “Call me Jie jie else I hit you ah!”)
Okay okay, I admit, I said that to a cute little girl but in a joking way bah…..