We just celebrated our 6th paktohversary…. 6!!! ENAM!!! LIU!!!! LAK !!! SIX !!! Pardon me for those exclamation marks because even I myself didn’t really see that coming. Just like how some people reacted when they realized Bobby and I have dated so long (and still acted as if we masih honeymoon period *eeseh*), and still belum kahwin.. *cough cough*
*KNOCKWOOD* Spit saliva – Don’t want to jinx it.
If you want to ask me what’s my secret, sorry ah, I also don’t know. Out of the blues I’ll also stopped and asked Bobby what’s making him loving me till now and vice versa, he’s also wondering the same.
And when I heard stories of couples throwing things at each other and swearing, it really freaks me out. We don’t shout when we’re having arguments. I guess, we’re just too calm and rational like that. When I’m really really mad at him, I’ll keep it to myself, hold the tears and do a lot of thinking up in the head, cooling myself down and wait for the right moment to speak. You know lar, nothing comes out from the mouth when you’re really angry one. Sometimes you just say things that you don’t even mean it and once you said it, cannot take back one. When I’m feeling better, I’ll tell him why did I react that way and how I feel. Our arguments always end up both apologizing because of the mess we created and the time wasted.
In relationships, any relationships, it’s either win-win or lose-lose.
Anyways, here’s some photos to quit the boredom.
We celebrated our paktohversary in Frangipani. We’re the only customers that night hence the food was served really quick (I like), though, I felt really paiseh when the waiter and waitress saw us camwhoring and if we laughed too loud, macam got echo.
His Ice Lemon Tea and my Apple Juice.
Fish Stew – Our favorite of the night!!!!
It was really really good! When Bobby ordered it, I was strongly disliking the idea. I’m not a fish person, I only like fish when it’s “Fish & Chips”, “Fish Fingers” and “Steamed Fish” (must hot hot fresh from work somemore) and…. I sibeh takut if the fish stew Bobby ordered is going to smell like fish market (a place which I avoid going after a satisfying meal because I sure throw up one if I enter). But I was so wrong… sibeh limpeh good ah! Must order this ah!
Next, it’s the card exchanging time….
Er, the above photo is for illustration purpose only ah.
My “Card” from him.
He was saying something really cliché like,
“Oops baby, I broke the card, can you fix it for me?”
It’s a flag book. I got the idea when I was browsing through the really crafty and talented Rozi’s blog.
My handwriting… a bit crappy here because I should have write the message before sticking the photos. Sendiri cari pasal…
Ending the night with one of my favorite sappy film – Fly me to Polaris (1999).
When Cecelia Cheung still looked fresh and innocent, probably belum kenal Edison Chen masa tu. I still cry when I watch this.. Same goes to “My left eye can see ghost”, mesti cry one… Sigh. My crying point super low one.
These are the vintage football comics that he’d spent a lot in bidding in eBay. His anniversary gift is still on it’s way sailing from… US? Amazon oh Amazon… lambat eh! As for mine, I will choose it during our upcoming trip. Yoohooo!!!
You’re the opposite of me,
the opposite of what I should have.
The contrasts we create drive me crazy sometimes but I guess that’s what keep us going on too.