Yo Girlfriends, have some backbone

Yeah! Reeda won! And Jan lost by ONE vote only. Man, competition between men are surely fierce.

And I'm not standing a chance to win "Blog of the Year". Hahhaa!!! It's ok, I'm already happy enough to win the "Brunei Best Personal Blog".

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I'm feeling really really lazy to blog. This holiday doesn't seem be acting like one since I'm busier compare to my normal working days. I hit the sack by 12 and wake up at 8 recently and that's really abnormal!

Anyway, back to the topic.

Lately I'd heard a couple of stupid love stories that really made me want to go shake the girls and asked them to wake up! I seriously have no idea what's so nice about those jerks that make them so unbearable to say goodbye with.

Silly Girl fell in love with Jerk. They dated for a year plus and Jerk fell in love with another girl. Silly Girl begged and cried to Jerk and claimed she doesn't mind to be his "WEEKDAY GIRLFRIEND"!

What the fish? What weekday, weekend girlfriend? Excuse me but I thought the definition of Girlfriend is "female person who is in a romantic relationship with another person"? How can someone "share" someone she loves? I don't get it.

Silly Girl even drove 80km just to "mend-the-pot" with Jerk but he wasn't at home at that time. Instead, she cried in front of Jerk's mum and shamelessly said that she loves her son very much and wanted to be her daughter-in-law very much.

Kweng Kweng Kweng.
-crow flies by-

Now this, is something I don't think I can or will do. Two very simple reasons, my skin is too thin and I can't tolerate myself with bastards like that. I guess I'll take out my scissors and snip off something very valuable to him (viagra-free forever yo!), or at least.... rub my palms and give him a good slap! If I can't do both, at least I vow to myself that I'll live a better life than him.

Revenge is sweet people.

Oh by the way, Silly Girl is a degree holder with a well-paid job and Jerk is a technician who's earning less than 1k. And for a bonus, he smokes and gambles too.

Finding a new lover won't be a problem for her but I don't know why is it so hard for her to move on. Man.. proves the unbeatable theory once again, "Nice girls always end up with Jerks".

Nope, I'm not finish yet.

The second story really get my nerves on just by listening how absurd it is. I'm just going to make it short.

Stupid Girl dated Bastard for 2 years or more (like I care). Bastard slept around with other girls and Stupid Girl knew it. Yet she gave him chance again and again. They quarreled, they fight, she moved out, but moved back in days later.

She even had to call Bastard's house mate and asked if he's at home and checked which shoes he had wore out. How pathetic can she be? So what if she knew what shoes he's wearing when he's having fun out there behind her back? She's supposed to confront him but instead, she put up with that.

Stupid.

Once their friends stepped down from an outlet and bumped into Stupid Girl with her girl friend at the east side of that area. And just 5 minutes walking distance away, there the Bastard was sitting around with a bunch of girls and guys drinking and having fun. And it was just an hour ago when she just called the house mate and asked where her boyfriend is.

Stupid. Stupid.

And I told Bobby, if one day I need to call his friends just to know where he is, that means it's almost the end of our relationship.

Nah.. Don't go tell me that "男人不坏, 女人不爱" (Women adore bad boys) crap. That doesn't make sense to me. I won't pity girls like that because they ought to have more pride and confidence in themselves not to end up all wounded by that heartless bastard.

Maybe they have their very own version of stories but I couldn't care less.

I just felt that every girl ought to be treated like a Princess, pampered and loved. Of course on top of that, you got to make sure you're a "lovable"person. Upgrade yourself and learn something new once in awhile, don't be lazy to dress up and look pretty. Thinking that because you'd dated or married to the same guy for years, its okay to look shabby is a very wrong concept.

At least, look pretty for yourself. Make yourself someone who's worth to sayang and have some confidence. I don't know what's wrong with men but, the more you ignore them.. the more challenge they felt and stick to you. If you throw yourself to them, they won't appreciate it.

Yo girl friends, have some backbone and pride!